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Post by T-Wongkamhan on Jan 20, 2013 16:02:25 GMT -5
 There are many couple that spent a lot of time to know each other by leaving together before get married. Some are happy but some cannot be continue and finally they give up. America is a freedom country, so; there are many couple feel free to spend their life and live together before maried. In the same time, some country in our world cannot do that because of strick culture and traditional from ancestor. However, new generation does't care too much, they just need a freedom life as American people. So do you think is this a good way to find a true love??? |
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Post by fei on Jan 23, 2013 16:05:53 GMT -5
I agree with it. I'm kinda traditional. Personally, I think it takes time for a couple to move to next step before any further decision is made. Falling in love with one thing, but marriage is totally another matter. It takes a lot for two individuals to form a family and live a life together. It's easy said than done. And only time will tell if you two are made for each other, not your parents' wish or your friends' advice. I mean no one is willing to marry someone who turns out to a total different person and find it impossible to live together after they get married. Marriage is one of lifetime decisions. You don't want to regret about it when you look back.
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Post by prissyprissana on Jan 23, 2013 17:17:22 GMT -5
I understand in every country have differrent culture. So in my opinion I think it's a good way to know each other well. If in the future I will get marry with someone of course, I would like the guy that love me, understand my nature but In my country we can't do like this. The couple can't live together before get marry. This culture means we're respectfull to each other. So what do you think about my culture? I should follow it or not?
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Post by yamini85 on Jan 26, 2013 17:41:37 GMT -5
In whole everyone have right to chose their life partner. but this opportinuty not get every one. im from India, mostly groom or bride parents chose parter for them.and the groom and a bride stay theire whole life with the stranger thats very rediculous thing. im glad im not belong from that kind of the family. i think marrige is the bonding between two people if they like to stay with each other they stay our get married but if any one dont like each other attitude behaviour so its better to seprate beside live life which u dont like.
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Post by yamini85 on Jan 26, 2013 17:42:05 GMT -5
In whole everyone have right to chose their life partner. but this opportinuty not get every one. im from India, mostly groom or bride parents chose parter for them.and the groom and a bride stay theire whole life with the stranger thats very rediculous thing. im glad im not belong from that kind of the family. i think marrige is the bonding between two people if they like to stay with each other they stay our get married but if any one dont like each other attitude behaviour so its better to seprate beside live life which u dont like.
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Post by phunthila on Jan 27, 2013 1:03:37 GMT -5
From my perspective, living together before marriage is a bad idea. I am from Thailand and my parents are really strict about this. I think couples who live together before marriage tend to be less satisfied with their marriages and more likely to divorce than couples who do not. Moving in with someone can increase the chances of making a mistake because you do not have to care about your girlfriend or boyfriend. You can just stop dating her or him and find a new girlfriend or boyfriend to move in with. Marriage is based on unconditional love and a lifetime commitment whereas living together prepares people to find reasons not to get married.  Phunthila R. |
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